Thanks for the screenshot. It shows that, what I already guess: your MIDI control signal (doesn't matter if it is a real controller or an other software) doesn't send a Disable Message. Here is everything 0. Only the Enable Message includes values, they can used for an action inside DMXControl 3. That's also the reason, why you need to create such a connection set.
For using a much less complicated connection set, you can try to set the values for the Disable Message manually. They are so far the same like the Enable Message. The only difference is the value for Data 2. Here you need to choose 0.
The values for Backtrack (enable and disable) you can ignore for the moment. These you need only first, when you want to get a status back from DMXControl 3 to a LED indicator of your controller or something similar.